These are my last few times with my two kids.
Soon we will grow from a family of 4 to 5!
I like tracking how my kids are growing because overnight changes almost happen daily.
My original post on my kids development was Oct 2018 – read about it HERE.
At that time, my little girl Emelina was 3yo and my little boy Kyneton was 9mo.
Eme is now 4.5yo and Ky is 1.5yo.
Here’s the latest 🙂
Kyneton is 18 months old
We are trying something different at night.
Kyneton is really good going down when its bed time but after 5 hours he grumbles a little bit, we give him some water and then he’s asleep until 5am.
We put him down and he’s asleep by 7:30pm he’ll be good until 12am and then he’s up at 5am and that’s where Leki takes over.
It could be worse I suppose.
He needs me to nurse him to sleep.
Sometimes his little feet stumbles into our room and he wriggles in somewhere.
We are not as strict with Kyneton with self soothing as we were Emelina.
Apart of me enjoys have him shack up with us sometimes but other times I wish we were more firm with him.
But in preparation for baby #3 due to arrive we have been putting Ky down with Eme in her room.
It seems to work pretty well because he wants someone around him when he’s unsettled.
When we settle our little girl into routine we’ll review the game plan with Ky’s sleeping arrangement.
That’s the plan at this stage.
Kyneton is happy exploring his environment whether it’s inside or outside.
He likes to be by himself and figure out how things work.
When I’m in the kitchen and I watch him play in the backyard I see him climb into the trampoline or explore the garden and observe the birds and he calls out to them ‘quack quack’.
His running style is getting more stable as he had a very funny zig zag type of running pattern – we’d joke it’s because he’s carrying a big heavy head making him unstable.
I guess his key body movement at the moment is thumb sucking.
Yes, he’s a comfort thumb sucker but we thinks it’s cute 😉
Ky is aware of his surroundings and can be very cautious.
The other day we visited his new cousins at the Royal Women’s Hospital and he was very excited to be in a new environment but didn’t want to lose hand contact with either of us.
If we are in familiar territory like Nana and Poppy’s house he runs around like he lives there!
When we are at the local park he quickly realises that the playground is around the corner and is itching to get out of his booster seat.
It’s like he knows his sense of direction when we are in the car running around to the local shopping spots, dropping Eme off to Montessori School or going to Gymnastics.
Can’t get too much past this little guy.
Kyneton likes food but he’s now starting to pick and choose.
We don’t let him live it up too much.
If he doesn’t want to eat what we’re eating then he can go without food… for a little while 😉
The next time he wants to act up when we feed him then he needs to make a decision on what he wants to do.
Suck it up and eat or go without food for a little while.
He’s no longer needing me to ‘Mama’ his food anymore and it’s almost a year since we topped up with formula.
We also believe in firm discipline.
He gets a smack and it reinforces something we’re trying to teach him.
The oven is hot, the knife is sharp, the drawer is dangerous, trip over your toys left laying around… the list is endless!
We start with a firm word and come down to him at face level and talk to him.
If he persists or tests us then he’s gonna learn LOL
We smack with love in our heart.
He’ll learn… eventually 🙂
Emelina is 4.5yo!
Emelina is a champion sleeper if there is such a thing.
She goes down at 8pm and wakes at 7am.
What a dream!
The only change is that we’ve put Kyneton in with her for a little while to buddy up until our new little girl settles in!
Eme has been a steady performer in her gymnastics school!
Her form is not as straight as some of her classmates and she’s a little afraid of heights but she’s persisting with her training and enjoying it!
Her little body is not as flexible, strong or fluid but we can see the potential of what Emelina could develop into if she is continues to practice and be consistent.
So proud of her effort so far I hope she continues to enjoy it!
Emelina has a naturally curious and fun personality.
She’s definitely testing the boundaries but it’s from mostly a place of curiosity rather then being naughty.
We have to remember to come from a place of Curiosity rather then Judgement when it comes to our kids.
She is a loving older sister to her younger brother Kyneton.
Sometimes she might play a bit rough then what we prefer but she’s enjoying her playtime with her growing brother.
As we understand it can be completely normal and developmental issue.
We allow Eme to gauge what Ky’s reaction is so that she can develop her own emotional intelligence.
We try very hard not to be a helicopter parent.
I don’t mind if my kids fall over and get hurt.
I don’t worry if there’s a chance that my child will get fingers caught in the drawer.
I like watching Eme and Ky climb ladders and play in the local playground and jump into puddles.
If they get hurt or uncomfortably wet then it was a result of their actions.
I am trying to teach them to be resilient and self sufficient.
In my last update on this topic I laid out some expectations:
- School and Gymnastics for all our children will be mandatory
- Then every 6 months we will look to introduce new things for the kids to try.
It may be an learning instrument, scouts, nippers, sport or drama.
Whatever may take their fancy but we are not looking at letting them be lazy on school holidays.
Especially in the final years of primary school leading into high school!
This is helpful because it reminds me how quickly they grow and what little time I have with them before they’re too cool for Mum and Dad 😉
I hope you enjoyed this post and the next one will feature out new little team member 😉